I imagine, of course, that it depends on the gentleman/dude/guy. If he is laid back and chill, he may be waiting for fate to work its magic. But let's say you were a nice, fairly normal, self-aware man who likes women and actively wants to find one to date. You don't like bars because you're a little too intellectual for the superficial meat market, and online dating is exhausting.
Where do you go?
Men-in-relationships... where did you meet your lady? Were you looking for a date? Or was it more of a stumble-upon-thing? How do single guys in their late 20s and early/mid-30s actively seek relationships?
*And by relationship, I mean the following: Someone you are seeing regularly that you have mutual respect for and a mutual understanding with that you are both awesome and like seeing each other. I don't mean frequent hookups, and I don't only mean married.
ETA: No, I am not just looking for Jewish men! I am looking for all good guys. I just like to excuse my match-maker-y nature by attributing it to my Jewish cultural heritage.
