Here's the poll I put on Facebook to test the idea:
On LinkedIn, it's common to use your connections to introduce you to people they know. For instance, if I was in law school and interested in figuring out which law firms might be a good fit for me, no one would blink an eye if I asked my friend Mike Easter from high school to connect me with his friend Hugh Louis Dewey at Law Firm Dewey Cheatem & Howe.*
But on Facebook, we don't do that. (Or at least no one I know really does.) No one says to me, "Hey Sarah, I see you have that really funny friend L. Ron Cupboard, would you mind introducing me? I think we'd hit it off!" And what about dating? Friends of friends are a fantastic dating pool, yet it's untapped!
And, wanna-be Yente that I am, this is confusing to me. Hence this poll. Because with Facebook's new Graph Search, you can do some pretty cool searching based on location, relationship status, age, etc.
Question 1: Let's say you have a lot of awesome single friends. As it happens, I also have a lot of awesome single friends. For the purposes of this question, let's assume that our awesome single friends would like to be less single. (Not that there is anything wrong with being single! Glen Coco is single and he seems to do OK! #yougoGlenCoco) Let's say I used Facebook to identify a potential match and then asked you to help me set it up. (Assuming here that you thought the compatibility seemed good.)
Would it be weird? Would you help?
- Yeah, not gonna lie, it would be kind of weird, AND I probably wouldn't help you.
- Yeah, not gonna lie, it would be kind of weird, BUT I would totally help!
- Nope, this would not be weird, it would be AWESOME.
Question 2: Let's say YOU are a single person (who wants a date/relationship/thing), and I approach you about this Facebook-related match-making.
Would you go on the date?
- Sure, why not!
- Nope. Too weird.
Want to take the poll yourself? Go here: http://apps.facebook.com/my-polls/facebook-yente
Excited to see how this goes!
*All names courtesy of the Car Talk Staff Credits list.